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Common Fraud Schemes-part 4.. Advance Fee Scheme

February 24, 2011 in Miscellaneous Chat

Never heard of Advance Fee Scheme?

Let me explain what it is. An advance scheme happens when the victim pays money in hope of receiving something of greater value such as a contract, a loan, an investment, or a gift then receives nothing in return. The variety of advance fee schemes is only limited to the imagination of the thief behind the scheme. Some of the services offered are products or services, the offering of lottery winnings, found money, or other "opportunities. They may offer to pay a "finder fee"in advance. The victim is required to sign a contract in which they agree to pay the fee when they are introduced to the financing source. Unfortunately they are denied financing after they have paid the fee. Naturally it will be impossible for the victim to contact the " company" because they use a web of fake address, phone numbers, and email address.

Tips or Avoid the Advanced Fee Schemes:
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If the offer sounds too good to be true, it is. Follow common sense business practice. Legitimate business don't conduct business on a street corner.
* Know who you are dealing with. If you have never heard of this person or business, do some research. Contact the Better Business Bureau, consult your bank, State Attorney's office, FBI, or many of the consumer protection web sites available to you. Get their physical address NOT a post office box. If it is local, go by there. If not contact the city hall of the city in their address to see if they actually have a valid business license.
* Make sure you fully understand ANY business agreement you inter into. If the terms are complex, have your attorney or banker look it over.DO NOT SIGN WHAT YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND!
* Going back to an address, do not do with a company that only has a post office or mail drop.
* Be very wary of business deals that require you to sign a nondisclosure or noncircumvention agreement that are designed to keep you from independently verifying the bona fides of the people with whom you intend to do business. Thieves often use noncircumvention agreements to threaten their victims with civil suit if they report their loss to law enforcement.

With the economy in the sad shape it is, there are more con artist than ever lurking out there, so be careful about who you are dealing with.

Being On Time…Why is it so Hard?

February 24, 2011 in Our World

Growing up in the 1950's and 1960's, I do not remember much of the little details but I do remember always being busy. My parents were firm believers in "chores" and in getting things done on time. They were also strong on personal responsibility and doing what you said you would do. If you had a chore to do, get it done. If you failed to get it done, do not make any excuses and accept the consequences without crying about it. This is how I was raised and it has always been a positive asset in my life ever since.

Later in life, after graduating from college, I would enter military service with the United States Army. Here is where I had the attitude of "self-discipline" pounded into my brain. This is the type of discipline required when you are a team member and the lives of your fellow team members rely on you just as much as you rely on them. Interestingly enough, the attitude of personal responsibility taught to me by my parents and the attitude of self discipline taught to me by the military were exactly alike. They both required me to do what I said I would do. No excuses for failure but taking personal responsibility.

Later in my aviation career, I would have the experience of flying passengers in a charter helicopter business. We would pick people up at a location they designated and drop them off at a destination they selected. Our goal was always to be on time. Perhaps we would be early but never late. Not surprisingly, it was usually the passengers that would be late, however, that did not matter. Our job was to be on time. That was our responsibility.
What amazes me today is the lack of respect people have for other people. For example, not showing up on time for an appointment, not being available when a phone conference is scheduled, not following through on getting something done when a commitment has been made, not calling when you know you are going to be late and not taking responsibility while making all kinds of excuses why something did not get done are all very disturbing. Since when has it become fashionable to be irresponsible? To me the term 'fashionably late' only describes a lack of respect and irresponsibility in a person.

In summary, sure things happen to affect our lives and schedules. We are not automated machines programmed to do things at specific times and that is exactly my point. We are not machines. We can think. Thinking about the other person is something that is a human trait. Following through on a commitment to another person is not only the right thing to do, it is the most responsible and respectful thing to do. Do not be the one who fails. Let the other person fail to meet their commitment to you but do not let yourself fail to meet your commitment to them. The people you deal with that matter, who are important in your life will respect you all the more. Plus you will feel much better about yourself in the process.

Independent Study Supports Over60Exchange

February 23, 2011 in Our World

DAYTONA BEACH, July 20-- When we put the Over60Exchange together, it was not easy. It took 18 months to come up with the right formula for what to offer on the Over60Exchange that would have the greatest impact on people age 50 and older. A recent independent study conducted by one of the world's largest Public relations firms, Ruder Finn, supports what we have created.

Ruder Finn asked respondents to pick from 295 reasons for why they go on the Internet.

Here are the results.

According to the Ruder Finn Intent Index, more than 4 in 5 people (80%) go online to socialize, which is twice as many as those who go online to shop or do business.

This is why we created the Friends Bank. This gives everyone a chance to lists their interests, which can then be matched with other people who have the same interests.

72% of people go online to join a community. This is overall reason why the Over60Exchange was created. We are a community of people facing what could be our best years or what could be our most challenging years. Our goal is to become the largest Internet online community for people age fifty and older.

Here is another major reason why the Over60Exchange is so relevant to today's aging population. Young people and Seniors go online for the same reasons. To have fun (82%) and to socialize (80%). Both want to have fun!

Again, the Over60Exchange is adding sections that do both. For example, see the new Inspiration section.

Education is another major reason why people go on the Internet. They want to be kept informed (79%) and to share information with others (86%). Exactly what the Over60Exchange does through its Talk Bank and Idea Bank.

Earning income is big (69%) are online for work and business reasons. We created the Job Bankand Skills Bank to keep people employed and earning income at any age level.

Buying something online is also important (34%). That's why we created the Over60Exchange Market, so that it would be convenient and also allow us to offer products and services specifically geared to people age fifty to one hundred.

Below is a list of the full study -

Reasons to go on the Internet

Pass the time 100%
Self Education 96%
Connect with Others 92%
Research 89%
Share Information 86%
Be Entertained 82%
Keep Informed 79%
Discuss Topics 76%
Join a Community 72%
Work and Business 69%
Escape 66%
Relax 62%
Influence Others 56%
Actively Support Something 52%
Entertain Others 48%
Emote 44%
Be Creative 42%
Make a Purchase 33%
Manage Finances 30%
Comparison Shop 28%
Join a Cause 26%


About the Intent Index (www.ruderfinn.com/intent)

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My favorite Ronald Reagan quote

February 22, 2011 in Miscellaneous Chat

"Surround yourself with the best people you can find, delegate authority, and don't interfere."

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Safe Summer-part 1

February 22, 2011 in Miscellaneous Chat

Summer is a time hitting the open road, but before you go, here are a few tips keeping the home safe:

* Make sure your home looks occupied. Stop delivery of mail and newspapers. Put a couple lights and a radio on automatic timers. The one room in the home that can be used 24/7 is the bathroom. If you have a bathroom with a window, put a lamp on a timer in that bathroom. Someone who may be watching the house will, no doubt, think you are home.
* Trim shrubs and bushes around the home where a burglar might hide.

* Don't put your address on you bag tags for anyone in the airport check in area to see.
* Get with your neighbors to form a "House Watch" group to watch each other's home this summer.
* Video, or photograph, the contacts of your home then store in a bank safety deposit box or other safe. This will provide your insurance company of documentation in the event of a break in, fire or other disaster.
* If possible, install motion sensitive lights on the outside of your home.
* Contact your local police department, tell them that you will be out of town, many departments have a "Patrol" list.

Next in the Safe Summer series is "Safety Begins When you Pack.

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It’s That Time of Year Again

February 22, 2011 in Miscellaneous Chat

My gosh, the holidays are upon us! I felt compelled to publish a list of safety reminders because, the fact is, the number of reported theft is up nationwide. Please read and share so you, and your family, can have a safe and happy holiday season:

* When possible shop in pairs, it is safer and more fun.
* I know they are pretty, but don't wear expensive looking or expensive
jewelry. No need to advertise yourself.
* Carry a purse with a wide strap that you can wear across your chest.
Not a fashion statement, but hard for a purse snatcher to get.
* Don't put anything of value in the outside pocket of a backpack.
* Only carry the exact amount of money you think you will need and
as few credit cards as possible. Before you start shopping, write
down your credit card information and a contact number, put it in a safe
place in your car. If your card is stolen you can contact the card
company immediately.
* Carry a drop bill fold. Get a cheep bill fold, put a expired card and
a dollar of two, if you are approached, give the bad guy that. Believe
me he/she will not stop to check the expiration date.
* Park as close to the building as possible in a well lite place. You might
start your shopping trip in daylight, but remember it gets dark earlier.
* Be aware of who is around you. When you are returning to your car,
have your keys in hand and look, notice who is around you.
* If you are approached in the parking lot, throw your keys as far as you
can and yell, "FIRE!"
* Always check in your vehicle before you get in.
* If you purchase a gift card, watch the transaction. There were a
number of reported cases where the customer purchased a gift card,
the clerk swapped cards, the customer was given a worthless piece of
plastic while the clerk got to spend whatever the amount of the card was.
* Watch your credit card, likewise there were reported cases of credit
card swaps. If you have a custom card with your favorite NFL team or
grandchild's photo, you don't have to worry, but if you have the basic
card, make sure it is yours before you leave the check out lane. One
method was the clerk wrapped the receipt around the card. Cleaver! .

The bottom line is to be smart, don't make yourself vulnerable or give the bad guy an opportunity to take what is yours.

Happy Holiday Shopping

Tell us your story!

February 22, 2011 in The Economy

In today's volatile economic world it's more important than ever for seniors to stick together and encourage one another. How have you managed to reinvent yourself? What steps have you taken to prepare actively for the new world that is upon us? Tell us your story. Share your life-affirming tips with others. We want to hear from you! Write to me at jim@over60exchange.com We'll publish your story of encouragement.

Comments:

From: rbrew7600
Posted Sep 24, 2008 // 4:24PM

Jim - I am looking at every expense but essential and non-essential. If I can cut anywhere or eliminate an expense, I am going to do it. There are many new technologies that are at little or no cost. For example, I now have MagicJack attached to my computer. For $19.95 per year, I can make free long distance calls anywhere in North America and for a few cents a minute, I can call anywhere else in the world. This eliminates having to pay for a local phone number, all the taxes and associated fees. Savings per year? Probably $500-$600. This is only one area.

I am looking at magazine subscriptions, recurring monthly fees for service that I may only use once in a while, upgrades such as cable movie channels that I may rarely watch and other tacked on services that I may have said "yes" too when signing up for them. All these things add up and together could be costing me an extra 2-3 hundred dollars per month.

Credit cards with balances that have interest rates higher than other cards may be transferrable to cards with a much lower interest rate. Banks may turn transfers off, if the financial conditions do not improve, so I am going for lower interest rate cards now while I can make the change.

There is plenty more and I am only getting into it now so I have a ways to go before I feel like I have reviewed everything.

How have you prepared for the sudden economic downturn?

February 22, 2011 in The Economy

In many ways, the recent economic downturn caught a lot of people by surprise. There are those who said we should have seen it coming. There are others who say they did see it coming. But, one way or another and whether or not it was expected, the severity of the collapse has affected us all. What have you done to help weather the storm? Share your thoughts and strategy with our readers. We need to talk to one another and stick together to get through this. Click on Ask Jim or write to me at jim@over60exchange.com. You're answer will be posted immediately!

Honestly, I’m scared. What I hear from the “experts” on television is that no one knows how bad times will get before they get better. Any ideas about how to weather the economic storm?

February 22, 2011 in The Economy

Honestly, I'm scared. What I hear from the "experts" on television is that no one knows how bad times will get before they get better. Any ideas about how to weather the economic storm?

Many years ago I had a conversation with a Jewish woman whose father died in Germany during World War II. Her mother managed to survive long enough for liberation armies to rescue her from the Nazi death camps. This brave woman passed on a lesson to her daughter that was far more precious than gold. When asked about how she and others like her had been able to survive day by day, the wise woman told her daughter that her captors couldn't really take away her freedom. They could imprison her, make her work, deprive her of food and debase her in a hundred different ways. But, ultimately, once she accepted the injustice of it all, she had the freedom to decide how she could live within the limits they set for her. Her world had become four walls of cement block and barbed wire, but she still made choices. She could decide not to become bitter and resentful. She could lavish love on her fellow prisoners. She could make wishes on the first star she saw every night. She could dream big dreams. Even in her limited existence, she could re-invent herself.

I share this story not to suggest that what we are experiencing was even remotely like her situation. I just want to illustrate the absolute inevitability of human freedom. There is always something in life that we can decide to control ourselves, even if it's only the choice we make not to become bitter, not to become angry, or not to give in to despair. It may not seem like much freedom. But it is freedom.

Hang in there. Keep positive. Follow the re-invention rules you'll find on our home page. We'll get through this, and we'll be better than ever. The best is always yet to come!

RETIREMENT

February 22, 2011 in Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

The topic today involves retirement. Over the last thirty years I've counseled hundreds of people faced with the problems and opportunities that accompany achieving the symbolic age of 65. But times have changed. This isn't our parent's era anymore. The days of buying a house for $8,000, paying off the mortgage and selling it for $300,000 thirty years later are gone. Gone, too, are lifelong pension plans with full health coverage. There are those who believe Social Security may even be risky. People are scared. Take these questions, for instance:

QUESTIONS -

I turn 65 next year. My wife and I have a small nest egg, but still owe $35,000 on our mortgage. For years part of my pay was in company stock. Now that stock isn't worth much more than it was when I received it. Will we ever be able to retire? - G.H., Burlington, VT

For years my husband was the principle bread winner in the family. He died last year, after being retired for only a few months. I discovered, much to my chagrin, that no one wanted to hire me for any meaningful work. Our savings are not going to be enough to see me through, even with Social Security benefits. Maybe it's just pride, but I don't feel comfortable working with the kids at our local fast-food restaurant. What can I do? P.L.N., Fresno, CA

My factory just went bankrupt and closed their doors after I worked for them for twenty-seven years. I expected to retire with full benefits. Now they tell me I've lost everything and have to start over again. Because of pre-existing conditions, I can't afford health coverage. Where does a person turn for help? - V.T., Virginia City, VA

ANSWERS -

These people all have something in common. They expected the life-supporting systems they grew up with to continue forever. But retiring and moving to Florida or Arizona is a relatively new concept that may have already run its forty or fifty-year course. It only seems traditional to us because it's what most of us knew growing up.

When "age 65" and "retirement" became linked together, the average age of death was in the low seventies for men and high seventies for women. Retirement was seen as the reward of a few years of relaxation before the supposed inevitability of age worked its deadly course. Today, people regularly live well into their nineties. Back then, lifetime health care was available for a very reasonable amount of money. With today's expensive medical technologies, it's a different story. A few decades ago, the Baby Boom bulge was yet to be a Social Security concern. Business was booming and "Come Grow with Us" was a popular community slogan. Companies lived by an unspoken, but firmly understood, rule: "You remain loyal to us and we'll remain loyal to you."

Those days are gone. Say it out loud - forcefully. Right or wrong, fair or not, those days are gone! You simply have to accept it.

There are two ways of dealing with harsh reality. You can either whine and mope, or adapt and move on. It's a cruel truth - but a truth none the less. The person who pragmatically accepts that truth, physically and emotionally cuts his or her losses, and begins to make plans is the person who will best be equipped to thrive in the future.

The mistake all three of our sample questioners made is that they placed their future well-being in the hands of another person, a tradition, a way of life, a company, or some other outside agency. We all do it. Our culture almost forces that course of action upon us. It's nothing to be ashamed of. It's called trust, and trust is usually a good thing. Where would the world be without it? But it can turn into a trap if the person or institution we trusted lets us down. The question then becomes, is it too late to learn from our mistake and go forward with our lives? With feelings of unfairness and betrayal fresh in our minds, can we overcome those emotions, refrain from thinking of ourselves as victims, and go forward to a new future? Do we have options?

That's a question we'll take up in future ASK JIM segments. The answer might surprise you. Take heart. You have a lot more to offer than you realize!

Here at Over60Exchange we're soon going to offer an entire book devoted to this subject. We'll let you know as soon as it's ready for publication. Watch for it. Your best years could very well be ahead of you, no matter how old you are! Have faith!

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