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You’ve talked about seniors “reinventing” themselves. What do you mean by that?

February 24, 2011 in Uncategorized

You've talked about seniors "reinventing" themselves. What do you mean by that?

Let's break it down, word by word.


Seniors:
People over the age of 60 have experienced more change than any generation of people who have ever lived upon the face of the earth. That's a bold statement, but it's true. There are people reading these words on their own personal computer who were alive to see their town's first automobile drive into town. They have seen the coming of plastic, bubblegum, Velcro, microwaves, moonwalks, space stations, multi-channel TVs, cell phones…the list just goes on and on. How do people who have seen and experienced so much manage to adjust?


Reinventing:
They reinvent themselves. They discover how to do new things. They keep learning and growing. They read, converse, take classes, attend seminars, practice their new skills and delight in exploration. They are not afraid to take chances even if they make mistakes and feel foolish. They are confident in their wisdom and breadth of knowledge, so they are not threatened by young people who may know more about a particular skill or technology. Instead, they learn from them, add that new knowledge to their depth of wisdom, soak up the new information and grow even more.


Themselves:
Here's the key. Growth can only come from within. It can't be forced on us by someone else. We have to want it. We are our own teacher. We may seek out specialists and guides, but the ultimate goal is to please ourselves, not anyone else.


Any seniors reading these words have already reinvented themselves to a degree. You've learned to use a computer. You've mastered the world-wide-web. You've demonstrated initiative and curiosity simply by discovering the Over60Exchange website. You have every right to be proud of yourself! Keep up the good work. You are a different person than you were even a few years ago. You have reinvented a new you.


Congratulations and enjoy the journey. It never ends!

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Reinvention of Myself

February 24, 2011 in Uncategorized

Jim, you are absolutely correct! When I look back at my life and career, I see major turning points when I had to drop the old and embrace the new. Sometimes it was very difficult, especially on my family, but each time I came out better than I was before.

Here's another thing I learned. Each time I reinvented myself new opportunity doors opened to me. Even more amazing is the fact that these doors were there all along. I just did not see them until I changed my thinking and reinvented myself.

I hope people coming to the Over60Exchange understand the tremendous power being offered to them to make a positive change in their lives. In this period of great change, unrest and uncertainty, we are experiencing the greatest period of opportunities not seen since the industrial revolution. I am astounded at this fact and am overyoyed that I can participate in it.

Jim – What do you think about this bailout/rescue stuff?

February 24, 2011 in Uncategorized

Jim - What do you think about this bailout/rescue stuff?

Like you, I've been reading all the information I can get my hands on. I've been trying to absorb material from both the political right and left, remain as neutral as possible, talk to experts and watch all the TV pundits I can stomach. Bottom line? I don't know what the best course of action is from the Washington/political side. I see benefits and dangers in virtually every course of action. Historical "facts" and conventional "wisdom" can be summoned up to buttress every decision Washington makes.

But I do know one thing. Although none of us "little people" can change the world, we can change the way we live in it. There are a whole host of little things each and every one of us must do. We can conserve, spend less, protect what we have, find little ways to help each other, and make both personal and business decisions based on ethical and moral principles, rather than just improving our bottom line.

Don't sell any of this short! These kinds of choices give us a sense of empowerment and self-worth. They make us feel better about ourselves. They remind us that we do have power over how we choose to live our lives. Half the problem of this national malaise we find ourselves in is a feeling of powerlessness. Our worst enemy right now is petty blaming and finger pointing. It may feel good for a time and impress the folks down at the coffee shop, but it won't solve anything. Feeling sorry for yourself doesn't pay the mortgage.

There is an added advantage to doing the little, human things. Many little acts of kindness and conservation add up to big accomplishments. A few people behaving responsibly during a difficult time will set a mature example that can have repercussions far beyond a small individual sphere of influence.

Hang in there and practice the art of being human. Every crisis demands maturity and poise. We'll get through this!

Now let's hear your thoughts!

Now is the Time!

February 24, 2011 in Uncategorized

During periods of the greatest changes are the greatest opportunities! Do you believe this? You should. It is happening right now. We are living in just such a time. During these times when everything around us is rapidly changing there is much confusion causing most people to become frozen with inaction hoping for things to return to normal. While most people will stand still, it is during this confusing time when the door of opportunity swings wide open for new ideas, new inventions, and new ways of doing things. It is at this time when any individual with initiative and a good idea can jump ahead of the crowd regardless of age. It is not your age that will hold you back in trying times. It is your attitude!

If you recognize that things are challenging or even worse, you see yourself gaining momentum in the wrong direction also understand that you are the only one capable of making a directional change. Changing directions is not dependent on your age. Many people hit a certain age and feel like life has passed them by and that their best years have come and gone. For some this could be age 30. For others it could be age forty, fifty or sixty. It is important to understand these are only numbers. Your real age is determined by your attitude. And, if you attitude causes you to think that you are capable of more; you are regardless of the events surrounding you.

Today's economic and life altering events should be looked at as opportunity to change your life regardless of age. Further, history is filled with examples of people who did not reach their true potential until late in life. People like Ronald Reagan, became the governor of California at 61, and later also became US President; Sam Snead , golfing great known as "Slammin' Sam" winner of seven major championships and a record 81 PGA Tour events. He won a Par 3 Tournament in 1974 when he was 61; Gandhi, when he was 61, and he and his followers marched 240 miles across India in 24 days to make their own salt from the sea in defiance of British colonial laws and taxes; William Jennings Bryan, began his furious campaign against the teaching of evolution in schools when he was 61; Benjamin Franklin, At age 70, in 1776.

Franklin played an instrumental role in drafting and signing the Declaration of Independence. At age 81, Franklin signed the Constitution of the United States of America; Frank McCourt, the author who wrote the bestseller "Angela's Ashes" began to write first in his sixties; Chaucerwrote his CANTERBURY TALES between the age of 54 and 61; Ogilby, the translator of Homer and Virgil, knew little of Latin or Greek till he was past 50; Socrates learned to play on musical instruments at age 80; Columbus was well over 50 when he discovered America andGrandma Moses achieved her fame and success after age 90.

Deepak Chopra writes: "A baby girl born in America today is expected to live just less than eighty years; an infant boy has a life expectancy of almost seventy-four. Historically, there are many people who have lived to ripe old ages and have made major contributions to civilization.Leonardo da Vinci was drawing sketches in his sixties, Leo Tolstoy was writing novels into his seventies, and Michelangelo was sculpting in his eighties. Winston Churchill, with his fondness for cigars and Scotch, was active and productive until his death at age ninety. '(SOURCE: Deepak Chopra, Grow Younger, Live Longer, Part 6)

Here's the bottom line. We can all sit around and 'belly ache' about politics and who is getting what. We can watch television and point fingers as to who is to blame and who is not. What good does it do? What good does it do for you? This is the time for action not complaining. This is the time to get up out of the reclining chair and make decisions about what you are going to do about your life. Look around and see what is needed. Help someone else. This will deflect attention from yourself and focus your energy on something outside your personal world. In this process you will gain perspective and new ideas will flow. You may even come up with that one singular idea that will change your life.

In bad times there are always good times. It is up to us to have the eyes to see them and the attitude that we deserve to pursue them.

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Yahoo alert and a reminder for all

February 24, 2011 in Miscellaneous Chat

This morning, I opened my email and read "YAHOO! Verification Alert" with a series of numbers designed to look like an account number. I opened the email and read that my Yahoo account would be turned off if I did not provide my full name, date of birth, and address to Yahoo. Failure to "verify" my account would result in my Yahoo account being closed.

I contacted Yahoo and (no surprise here) was told that Yahoo does not ask for personal information via email or any other method.

Fellow Exchangers, this is a classic method used by identity thefts.
If you get this type of message from Yahoo or any company, call that company and ask if they did, in fact, request this personal information. NEVER give out personal information over the Internet or on the phone with our first knowing who you are dealing with...the professional identity thief are very convincing.

Starting next week, I will be posting a series of blogs on identity theft and other non-violent crimes. If there is a topic that is of special concern to you, please let me know.

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Safe Summer-part 2

February 24, 2011 in Miscellaneous Chat

Safety cialis super active begins when you pack . You have already made arrangements to have your mail stopped and your lawn best essay writing services mowed. Now it is time to get out the suit cases, remember these tips:
1. Don't pack anything that you don't want to loose. Leave your expensive and expensive looking clothes and jewelry at home.
2. Pack clothes that are suitable for the region you are going in, you never want to look like a rich lost tourist.
3. Make a photocopy of your driver's license, the ID page of your passport, your airline ticket, your itinerary, and your travelers checks serial numbers. Pack a copy away from the originals and leave a copy with a family member or friend.
4 Make sure your address is not on your bag tag. Talk about advertising the fact you will not be home! Put colored ribbon on the bag's handle for easy identification and put your personal information inside the suit case.
5. If you are traveling over seas, research your destinations local laws and customs. Make sure that the destination is not on the Department of State's Country Specific List of countries they deem unsafe for Americans to travel.
6. Keep all prescription medication in the original bottle. If the prescription contains a narcotic, get a letter from your physician stating your need to take this medicine.
7. Check the limit on your credit card, and only carry one. American's have been arrested over seas when they could not pay for dinner because they are over their limit.
8. Ladies, buy a purse with a wide strap that can be worn across your chest. Gentleman get a money belt to deter pick pockets and snatch thief's. Putting anything but bottled water in the outside pockets of a back pack is a bad idea.
9. Find out of your personal property insurance covers you for loss or theft abroad. Check on whether your health insurance covers you over seas, some companies do not cover your when you leave the good Ole USA.
10. Make up a fake wallet containing a expired credit card, a picture or two that mean nothing to you, and $2.00. If you should be approached or be the victim of a theft, the bad guys got nothing..ZIP. Keep the money and credit card in that money belt or in the purse.

Traveling is fun, and your trip will be even more fun if you pack with safety in mind.

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Common Fraud Schemes-Part 1

February 24, 2011 in Miscellaneous Chat

Fraud is on the increase according cialis 5mg to the FBI, and there are many types of frauds to watch out for. In this series we will be examining the most common frauds and how to avoid becoming a victim.

Let's start with TELEMARKETING FRAUD:
When you send money to people you do not know or give personal or financial information to unknown callers, you increase your chances of becoming a victim of telemarketing fraud.

WARNING SIGNS-WHAT YOU MAY HEAR FROM THE CALLER:

1. You must act now or the offer will expire.

2. You have won a 'free' gift (or vacation or other prize) but you must pay for shipping and handling.
3. To take advantage of this offer you must send money, provide a credit card or bank account number over the phone or to be picked up by courier( before you have had a chance to consider the offer carefully.)
4. Don't worry about checking us out, we have been in business for years. They will try to convince you of their "Great reputation" so you won't contact the Better Business Bureau, a consumer protection agency, or other source.
5. To cut cost, we don't have written information about our company.
6. You can't afford to miss out on this high profit or no risk offer.

If you hear these-or similar-"lines" just say " Thanks but no thanks!" and hang up. It is very difficult to get your money back if your have been cheated over the phone, and worse yet, many of the telemarketer thieves will steal your identity as well.

The solution, NEVER give out any financial or personal information to anyone over the phone or the Internet. Always ask for, and wait until you receive, written material about the company and offer, then check them out through the Better Business Bureau, state Attorney General, National Fraud Information Center, or other watch group.
In addition, get information about the caller such as his/her name, address, phone number, business license then verify them. Don't pay for a "free prize" it is against for law for a caller to require any form of payments. Never respond to an offer you don't understand and have not thoroughly investigated. Take your time, it is never rude to be careful, and a legitimate company will understand and respect your request.

The next in the series will be Nigerian Letter or 419 Fraud
Stay tuned

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Common Fraud Schemes

February 24, 2011 in Miscellaneous Chat

Nigerian Letter Fraud or "419" Fraud: Nigerian letter fraud is a viagra tabs scheme in which a letter, or email, that originated in Nigeria offers best american essays the recipient the "opportunity" to share in a percentage of millions of dollars that the author, a self proclaimed government official, is trying to transfer out of Nigeria. The victim is given a "sob story" and is asked to send the author their bank account numbers and other identifying information via facsimile (or return email) to the address provided in the letter. The scheme relies playing of the victim's sympathy thus convincing the victim to send money to the author (in Nigeria) in several installments of increasing amounts for a various reasons such as they need to pay taxes, bribe government officials, and pay legal fees. The author promises that all expenses will be reimbursed as soon as the funds are spirited out of Nigeria.
Once the victim stops sending money, the perpetrators use the victims personal information to drain the victims bank accounts and opening credit accounts using the victim's identity.
While most people consider this a laughable hoax, millions of dollars have been lost by these schemes annually. Some victims have actually been lured to Nigeria where they have been imprisoned. The Nigerian government is not sympathetic to victims of these schemes since the victim is actually conspiring to remove illegally move move funds from Nigeria in violation of Nigerian criminal code "419" Thus the name.

Some tips to avoid becoming a victim of Nigerian Letter or 419 Fraud:
If you receive such a letter, contact your local FBI office or the U.S. Postal Inspection Service. Do not respond in anyway. If you receive an email from someone you do not know, don't even open it, delete it. This is the only way to avoid becoming a victim.

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Common Fraud Schemes-part 3. Impersonation/Identity Fraud

February 24, 2011 in Miscellaneous Chat

Impersonation fraud occurs when someone assumes your identity to perform a fraud or other criminal act. Criminals can get the information they need to assume your identity from a variety of sources, such as theft of your wallet, stealing your trash, mail theft, the Internet...well the list is a long one. The sources of information about you are so numerous that you cannot prevent the theft of your identity, but you can minimize your risk of loss by following a few simple hints.

*Never throw away ATM receipts, credit card statements, credit cards, any bill or bank statement.

Invest in a shredder to make SURE the information contained on these documents is destroyed (NOTE: Used the shredded paper as packing materials or as emergency kitty litter.)

*NEVER give any personal information over the phone unless YOU make the call and KNOW who you are talking to.

* Reconcile your bank account monthly and notify your bank of any discrepancies immediately.

* Keep a list of telephone numbers you need to contact in case of a theft or unauthorized financial transactions. This would include your credit card companies, your bank, and these important numbers: The Federal Trade Commission. Under the Identity Theft and Assumption Deterrence Act, the FTC is responsible for receiving and processing complaints from victims of identity theft or fraud. To contact the FTC, call 1-877-438-4338 or TDD at 1-202-326-2502. The Credit Bureaus:
Equifax at 1-800-525-6285.
Experian at 1-888-397-3742
TransUnion at 1-800-680-7289

* Review your credit report at least every 6 months.

*When going out of town contact the post office to have mail delivery suspended for that period of time. Don't rely on a neighbor, they may forget.

*Beware of "shoulder surfers" These are people who will watch over your shoulder as you enter a PIN number or hang around air ports, car rental, or hotel lobbies-any place where you are likely to make a call where you give your credit card number.

*Never give any personal information over the Internet unless your initiate the transaction, and are online with a well known reputable company. We will be posting a blog about Internet fraud in the near future.

* Investigate personal identification protection companies such as Life Lock and consider joining. True, they can not stop ALL identity theft, but are good basic protection.

* NEVER leave your purse on the baby seat of a shopping cart or in the outside pocket of a backpack.

Your identity is yours to keep and protect, we hope these hints will help.

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Healthcare Fraud and You

February 24, 2011 in Miscellaneous Chat

Healthcare is on the front page of newspapers all over the country and your can't turn on the news without hearing stories about it. True the healthcare system in the USA could be better, and one way to improve it is to reduce healthcare fraud. To illustrate the dollar amount involved, a fellow private investigator in California told me about an investigation she conducted on a pharmacy that was allegedly engaged in fraud. A pharmacy in the LA area who employees 5 people, including a delivery diver, and bills over $400,000 a month. When you enter the pharmacy, there are very few customers and the phones were silent. She compared that to a legal pharmacy that is open 24 hours a day and may bill Medi-cal between $44,000 and $46,000. Big difference.

But just what are they doing and how are they doing it? Fix yourself a glass of tea or something and read on. It could save you money and Americans millions.
TYPES OF FRAUD:
Providers bill for services not rendered. Patients are out of state, in prison, or unaware that their medical card number is being used to pay for medicine, lab test, or adult day care, Or, in many cases, the beneficiary is an accessory to the fraud and has been paid to see the doctor or visit a pharmacy. I guess you could say this is type of "health identity theft."

Cappers and Runners are individuals who gather prescriptions from low paid medical workers, beneficiaries or even doctors, and sell them to pharmacies, labs or other providers. They forge additional prescriptions, or have the doctors write out a prescription for what brings in the largest amount of money. Many are mid to low level street drug dealers who have a good knowledge of their area.

Providers and Doctors give the patient a "paper illness" such as diabetes, heart disease or a STD. Most of us were brought up believing that a doctor was nothing short of a god, but God knows there are bad apples in the barrel, and the medical profession is no exception. By claiming a beneficiary has serious illness, they can bill for medications in some cases costing over $10,000 a month and pocket the money.

Providers and Doctors have a kickback arrangement. Patients are allowed to fill their prescriptions at ONLY at one pharmacy. Doctors pay beneficiaries off in prescriptions and drugs. The current favorites are Codeine cough syrup, Viagra, Vicodin, and Valium.

Home Health Care. Some states, like California, pay relatives or friends of the patient to be home health aids. They are paid for running errands, shopping, or helping the elderly in any other way. There is almost no over sight and in California alone, the fraud is estimated in several millions of dollars.

Adult Day Health Care. This is when the government pays for special care for dependent adults and elderly. Here again, there is little regulation or accountability on the part of the center, according to the investigation. Many are understaffed, and they have "kickback" deals with the suppliers of food, medical equipment, and so forth.

Drug substitution. One drug is prescribed, but a higher priced one is billed to the governmental program while the patient receives a cheaper drug. This is most often found with Zyprexa 10 mg., a psychotropic drug that cost about 6 times more than other drugs in the same category.

Street Drug Sales and Smuggling. Prescriptions for a desirable street drug is forged by the pharmacists, the program that is in place is billed and the drug is then sold on the street often out of state. Texas and Louisiana are reportedly the states of choice for one pharmacy that was illegally exporting truckloads of Codeine Cough Syrup.

Lab Fraud. Lab work is ordered by less than scrupulous doctors for extensive, expensive, and not needed test, and the profits are split by the doctor and the lab.

These are but a few of the methods used to comment fraud in the American Healthcare system, but here are more. What can you do? First, know your doctor or healthcare provider. Do some research before your visit. Check out their credentials with the AMA and your state's regulatory board. Don't be afraid to ask questions. If you aren't satisfied with the answer, tell the doctor. Get a second opinion. When you get your prescription filled, read the label right then. Make sure that what is in the bottle is what the doctor ordered. If you are faced with the decision to place a loved one in an assisted living facility or nursing home, do extensive research on all aspects of the facility. Make unscheduled visits, and, again, ask if something just doesn't seem right to you and don't stop until you are satisfied with the answer. Last but not least, email or write your elected officials about your concerns. It is the lawmakers who are responsible for passing laws that will reduce or eliminate fraud.

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