You’ve talked about seniors “reinventing” themselves. What do you mean by that?
February 24, 2011 in Uncategorized
You've talked about seniors "reinventing" themselves. What do you mean by that?
Let's break it down, word by word.
Seniors: People over the age of 60 have experienced more change than any generation of people who have ever lived upon the face of the earth. That's a bold statement, but it's true. There are people reading these words on their own personal computer who were alive to see their town's first automobile drive into town. They have seen the coming of plastic, bubblegum, Velcro, microwaves, moonwalks, space stations, multi-channel TVs, cell phones…the list just goes on and on. How do people who have seen and experienced so much manage to adjust?
Reinventing: They reinvent themselves. They discover how to do new things. They keep learning and growing. They read, converse, take classes, attend seminars, practice their new skills and delight in exploration. They are not afraid to take chances even if they make mistakes and feel foolish. They are confident in their wisdom and breadth of knowledge, so they are not threatened by young people who may know more about a particular skill or technology. Instead, they learn from them, add that new knowledge to their depth of wisdom, soak up the new information and grow even more.
Themselves: Here's the key. Growth can only come from within. It can't be forced on us by someone else. We have to want it. We are our own teacher. We may seek out specialists and guides, but the ultimate goal is to please ourselves, not anyone else.
Any seniors reading these words have already reinvented themselves to a degree. You've learned to use a computer. You've mastered the world-wide-web. You've demonstrated initiative and curiosity simply by discovering the Over60Exchange website. You have every right to be proud of yourself! Keep up the good work. You are a different person than you were even a few years ago. You have reinvented a new you.
Congratulations and enjoy the journey. It never ends!
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