Over 60 Exchange

Hi Jim,

I have been retired for 19 years and have had numerous conversations about retirement and the ways to deal with it. I would like to share a few observations with you and the rest of the readers.

My advice in this matter is that no matter what and when your retirement is to be, it is extremely helpful to "practice" that which you believe you would like to do in your retirement. I looked forward to playing music, writing and painting. I started in these endeavors a number of years before retirement and when retirement came I had something to do right away. After retirement I involved myself in volunteer work. Along with several other people I helped start a Unitarian Church in the South end of the county. I began to attend the workshops presented by Jim Willis which impelled me to research religion and philosophy. This is enough to keep you busy, by the way.

One thing led to another and today I am busier than when I was working. I jokingly say that I should go back to work to have some free time.

My point is to suggest that whatever you think you might do in retirement, start doing it as time permits before retirement begins. Then when you do retire you will be ready to continue with your pursuits and your time will become meaningful. There is not anything mystical in choosing what you want to do. A friend of mine throws horseshoes several times a week and has developed friendships with several guys who have introduced him to other activities. He also attends Jim Willis's workshops and is always eager to help in volunteer work and church repairs.

I hope these suggestions will be of some help to those nearing retirement. Incidentally, my wife says that the secret to a good retirement is two cars.

Peace, Charley